Tuesday, September 17, 2013

You insecure you!

I always get fascinated by human beings. If there was a degree option to only study the behavior and analyze human beings,  I would do a double or triple major in it. I had a friendly recently share her story about the odd behaviour from a former friend of hers. And in my own circle, I have seen a girl who was kind or of the norm in the past but has started to show distancing behaviour. In the sense that I should be chasing her friendship. And it hit me; this is clear a case of two people who impose their own insecurities on others. Please me elaborate on that "kiindly".

This friend, has slight envy for my situation. I had more social freedom and independence. I'm still single and have the opportunities to further my education. I am already more educated than her. In response to recognizing I have something she does not have, she showing behaviour that displayed envy made me realize that often people impose their anger or disappointment because of themselves, not you.

I thank her for this lesson because it only helps to boost my own ego. To know I have more and for me to even feel more secure with myself. And the journey continues ;)

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