When it's in God's hands

I can't stop thinking about a friend since last night. I'm not used to him being like this, or nothing of this gratitude has come down upon him. Two times, his dad wasn't feeling well. But he was more used to that, as his dad was a heart patient.

So right now, his brother-in-law(who is also his cousin) has a brain hemorrhage. Two days ago, his condition was very serious, but has settled for the moment. They plan to do a surgery, but this all depends on his condition. So I assume they have to wait.

But last night when we talked, he said he was tired from exercising, because he can't sleep from 6am, so he just does something when he gets up. Everytime he tries to sleep, he sees dreams/visions of his cousin. And this can be disturbing of course. Then he mentioned "I don't know what will happen with my sister".

Those 2 things really hit me. How can one not worry, when you're sister might loose her life partner. I want to pray for his cousin and the situation this week.

I also realized I deeply care about him. I don't ever want him to have worries,or anything of this gratitude. I have gained some much respect for him in the past 2 months. Yes, he has changed and matured. But at the same time, he's always been a wonderful person that I didn't see too well. I will pray, and hope the best for this situation.